Chris Crocker

I love Chris Crocker! This video is like church. It is like cute, little, baby gay church. I love him. His hair is all long now. I think he looks like a very beautiful, very young, pre-‘Pretty Woman’ Julia Roberts. Sparkly eyes and glossy lips. You need to send him a fruit basket!!

Happy SF Pride!

San Francisco pride was amazing and I had such a wild, crazy weekend! It all started off by getting sworn it as deputy marriage commissioner at city hall so I could perform weddings on Saturday. Then I did the trans march, at Dolores Park (where Scott Silverman and I used to live) which was in […]

True Colors in Oklahoma City

The True Colors Tour rocked Oklahoma City Monday night and we all had a blast. It was a killer line up with Girl in a Coma, Andy Bell, little old me, JOAN JETT AND THE BLACKHEARTS!!!, the B-52s, and of course beautiful genius Cyndi Lauper. I love this tour and how it is just an […]

Summertime Pride Flirting Guide

It is that time of year again, and the stakes are higher this year because California has lifted the ban on gay marriage. People are cruising for keeps, and it is going to be a HOT summer. I am married already, so I am not looking for another partner, but the sport of flirting is […]

Tila Tequila

I love Tila Tequila and in many ways I consider her my spiritual daughter. She is a beautiful Asian American woman with a head for business and a bod for sin. She rules and she’s got tattoos!! Oh and she is bisexual!! She’s great and I think her show “A Shot at Love” is groundbreaking […]

Loving California

Oh Califonia! How proud I am of you! I was born in San Francisco, and although I always loved my fair city, during the 80s I was seriously torn up because secretly, I knew I would eventually have to move to Los Angeles to begin my show business career. I had a deep crush on […]

Gay Marriage Legal in CA

The ban on gay marriage in California has been lifted!! I can’t believe it. For everyone who has been working for this for what seems like such a long time it feels like a miracle. I am not sure what this means now. Can gays and lesbians get married in California? Today?! Update: Ian and […]

National Day of Silence

Today is the National Day of Silence, which is about making sure LGBT kids are not bullied in school, and this year it will be dedicated to the memory of Lawrence King, a California pre-teen who was shot and killed by another classmate out of homophobic hate. It is an important day, because we need […]

Jailed for Being Gay

I am shocked and disgusted that the Egyptian government has put 5 men in jail for being gay!! That is horrible. I have been to Egypt to study bellydance, and I haven’t seen the homophobia clearly because all the men – gay and straight – walk in the street holding hands! They are all hanging […]

Transamerican Love Story

I am all about the show TRANSAMERICAN LOVE STORY on Logo. It is a groundbreaking dating show, with the object of everyone’s affections, the incredibly beautiful and talented Calpernia Addams. I met adorable Jim, one of the handsome suitors vying for Calpernia’s affections, at my show this past weekend in Los Angeles, and he told […]

We’re Listening

This is appalling. And it isn’t some crazy backwoods religious nut. This is an elected official! This kind of hate speech is intolerable. I don’t know why people think there is some kind of homosexual agenda. I have been around the whole world of homosexuality for a long time now and I have yet to […]

Open Letter From Hillary Clinton To The LGBT Community

From Clinton, this is great too: “As I have traveled around the country these past twelve months, what I sensed in my heart has been confirmed – America is embracing its LGBT sons and daughters with an acceptance and understanding as never before. On the campaign trail, a father of a gay son will ask […]